Highlights
- Howard Stern's first divorce settlement with Alison Berns was rumored to be worth $40 million, but details remain unclear.
- Stern struggled post-divorce, admitting he let his family down, but therapy and Beth Stern helped him back on track.
- Following his divorce, Stern realized relationships were about more than just sex, leading him to seek therapy and self-improvement.
We have seen this in the past, divorce settlements leaving more questions than answers. That was the case for Howard Stern and his first divorce alongside Alison Berns.
In the following, we're going to take a closer look at what would lead to the divorce, and what the rumored settlement was said to have been. Details have been very limited, and it should be noted that nothing was confirmed by either side. All we can do in the following is speculate as to what was written about Stern's divorce from Berns years ago.
In addition, we'll take a closer look at how Stern struggled following the divorce, and how he was finally able to get back on his feet years later.
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Way back in 1978, Howard Stern tied the knot, marrying his first wife, Alison Berns. As fans identified due to awkward exchanges on the radio, things weren't always the smoothest between the two. During one particular exchange, Berns went on a rant, blasting Howard and stating that he had changed. Of course, during the '90s, Stern's show got a lot edgier, and likely caused problems behind the scenes in his marriage.
Despite Howard Stern being open about the struggles he faced after the divorce was finalized, the terms of the settlement were not disclosed. It is likely that perhaps an NDA was signed at some point. It was also said that the two did not have a prenup. NY Post speculated back in 1990 that the settlement might've been worth $40 million, given Stern's $80 million net worth at the time.
The publication writes, "Alison Stern’s split from shaggy-haired shock jock Howard Stern could earn her as much as $40 million if the couple decides to divorce, say divorce experts. That’s because Howard pulls down $20 million a year and is reportedly worth as much as $80 million – all money he made during his 21-year union with Alison. And the Sterns never drew up a prenuptial agreement."
“Under New York law, she’s entitled to half – and it was all acquired during their marriage, which began before he reached celebrity status,” famed divorce lawyer Raoul Felder told The Post."
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Alanis Morissette told Howard Stern she realized the times had changed following her work alongside Taylor Swift.It was the only headline that speculated, titled, Jock's wife could ride off with $40 million. Surprisingly, nothing was reported following the court verdict and which assets went where, leaving more questions than answers.
Howard Stern Admitted He Struggled After His Divorce
Howard Stern admitted to his struggles following the divorce. For Stern, it was a time to explore other options. According to the radio host, his intimate life was very active.
He spoke about his divorce during a revealing interview with Rolling Stone, "After my divorce, I realized, "Oh, wow, I can go have sex." And I was running around, picking up women. Then all of a sudden, it dawned on me that I really didn't need that much sex. I just wanted somebody with me every minute. I was using women as a surrogate mother. When I tapped into that, it suddenly became very childish behavior. And really, was it so great f****** every night? They're using me for my fame, I'm using them for their beauty, and the whole f****** thing seemed empty."
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Unlike what Howard Stern was expecting, Adam Sandler had a different mindset looking back at his time on SNL.Stern went on a journey to find himself following the divorce, and therapy proved to be very effective in aiding his mental state at the time.
Therapy And Beth Stern Put Howard Back On Track After His Divorce
Stern did reveal some information about his marriage ending, calling the divorce very painful. Stern felt as though he let his family down during the process.
"My marriage ending blew my mind. I was upset that I failed and let down my family, my kids, my ex-wife. It was all very painful."
Ultimately, therapy helped the radio host.
"I was totally neurotic... I knew things weren't right, and I said, 'Gee, where am I going to get some answers?' I had never been a guy to turn to religion but then as my marriage was coming to an end, I needed help to explain it to my children and make sense of it all... Because once you are a divorced guy, being a father is a whole different thing."
Stern admits things are a lot easier in his relationship today, but understands how easily things can turn.
"In many ways, my marriage now is so easy, but I'm also aware that I could f*** things up very easily. I could start getting more into my work, and ignoring what's important to Beth. I'm awfully narcissistic, and I have to keep that in check. I can't be like King Tut sitting there and expect to be taken care of, because so many times we can turn our wives into mothers."
Stern and Beth have been together since 2008.